Monday, October 14, 2013

Self-Pity

In a world full of wars, famine, abuse, violence, mutilations, rapes, persecutions and diseases etc., etc., I have spent my last few days wallowing in a turmoil of completely self obsessed and destructive self-pity. 

Sure part of it can be blamed on my medication, but I still cannot understand how I could lose my perspective and all self control to such an extent that I only felt angry, hurt and terribly frustrated over something this silly.

It is no one else's fault. I am not a victim and I have not been wronged in any way. The present situation is all of my own doing and choice, both when I acquired the habit of smoking and now when I decided to stop. 

Its time to put an end to this self-destructive mindset and keep moving on with my life and my choices.  I am sorry for trying your patience and thank the many that have shown me sympathy. Next time just slap me and tell me to get real!

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  1. Lycka till med att sluta röka - det går om man bara ger sig fan på det. Jag har varit rökfri i tre år nu och det är så skönt nu. :)

    Ibland behöver man bryta ihop lite för att sen kunna resa sig och vara stark igen. Vi är mänskliga trots allt. :)

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    1. Tack för de vänliga och uppmuntrande orden, Betty! ;)

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  2. Sending a lot of hugs for you!

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  3. You are becoming a better, new, wonderful version of YOU!

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  4. Grit your teeth and bite down hard - 72 hours free of smoke and your body doesn't need it anymore. The addiction is over - then you just need to shift the normal patterns of life where you might be tempted to smoke - do different things - different cafes, bars, and different routes to work for a while. Trust me - I'm a doctor lol. Good luck Bock. Thinking of you. xx

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  5. I have not given up yet, hugs to ya'll and thanks for the support!

    Oh Torro, could we play doctor for 72 hours? I really think that might help distract me...

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