Saturday, November 3, 2012

Romantic Entanglements

While I was hanging out with my son Guyke and our friends yesterday I received an Instant Message from my son telling me that he wished to speak with me in private.

I was somewhat worried about what would follow, but told him "OK, what?". Whereupon Guyke said he had to ask me a very personal question, to which I answered "Of course" getting slightly more worried. Then Guyke asked me what my true feelings were for Ziggy. I had thought much about that subject so the answer came easily, "I like him alot  but I am not in love. He is partnered in first life, so on my behalf it´s a no go on the romantic level."

"Uhm well", the boy said, "we have been getting close."
"How close, my darling?"
"Well, very close actually. Is that a problem for you? Janttu knows this and the two of us will still be together in first life. "
"No, not in the least as long as you are all OK with it. I promise, I have no problems with you and Ziggy but please be good to him. I do not wish to see him hurt or lose him as a friend", I told him.
"You won´t!", Guyke assured me.

So there it is. I fully accept and completely encourage and support the relationship between Guyke and Ziggy. I congratulate them both on finding such good men as each other.

I know myself well enough to know that for me a romantic relationship with someone who already has a first or second life relationship is off the charts. I can barely handle one man, even the thought of making allowances for another romantic relationship in the life of my chosen one completely overloads my emotional systems and always has. I am a "one-man-at-a-time-guy", which is neither better nor worse than being able to handle more than one at a time but just the way it is.

The only thing I may miss a bit is Ziggy´s flirting with me... but I will survive that I am quite sure!

6 comments :

  1. Thank you for your blessing white prince of Southern Charm xxxxx

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    1. I sure hope that this post does not come off as if I think you guys need my blessing, that was not at all my intention!

      Love ya´, buddy!

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  2. oh but we did! That's how special you are to the both of us :)

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    1. O.M.G. that´s a first! ;)
      *Paints a cross in the ceiling* as we say in Swedish when something highly unexpected occurs.

      Well if you did need it, you have it!

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  3. To have had your blessing Bock just made Heaven that much sweeter xoxoxoxoxoxox

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    1. See above, sweetie, and xoxoxoxoxoxox back at you!

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