Yesterday it was time for my buddy
Butch Diavolo to DJ at the
Amacci Party at
Second Pride. I had been looking forward to it ever since Butch told me he would be playing a set at Pride.
Butch started out hard and then he kept nailing it in deeper with every song he played. I thought he had an exceptionally good evening, but when I asked him afterwards how he felt about the set he said it had felt "OK". I told him he was silly and should stop bashing himself. The man was in all likelihood just exhausted after having played two sets back.to-back.
The fast working charmer I had met also came to the party. We had a long and pleasant conversation - or so I thought. However, I must have said or done something wrong because when I got online again later he had dissolved our friendship. "Well, easy come, easy go", I thought to myself even if it saddened me a little, but it really is better if people pull out sooner than later from something they do not believe they will enjoy.
I feel a bit ashamed writing this on the blog, and may possibly remove it at a later time. But as I have said many times before, this blog is mainly written as a journal for myself accounting what I experience in any of my lifes. I do not like failing at something and this was obviously something I did not handle well. As it is a learning experience it belongs here so I can remember it and learn from it in future relationships.
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| Aisha, Spanki, Wolf & Butch |
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| Nicki (right) and her wife Kiri |
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| Fun Loving Aisha dressed up for Pride |
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| The charming Cody Bolero showing skin and a great physique |
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| Weylin grooving with Zim |
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| Dodo (Please note that the man changes his underwear everyday) |
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| LeBelier, a pleasant new acquaintance from Canada |
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| Spanki (right) and a friend with a name starting with C (I forgot it I am sorry! |
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Zim & Weylin preparing to teleport to the main stage
for the next party after Butch had finished his set |
Butch played an outstanding set! I really enjoyed this party.
ReplyDeleteSorry to read about the unexpected unfriending... but I wouldn't blame yourself or worry about it. 'Fast working charm' sounds like it may have lead to heartache. Well, I believe that everything happens for a reason and people have all kinds of agendas in SL. Just keep getting out there and flirting and having fun. You do it so well! :)))
We will have to try to jointly knock it into that silly little twats head that he really was outstanding! ;)
DeleteYeah, admittedly I was a little smitten with him. I became rather bewildered when I discovered what had happened and at first thought I would ask him, but thankfully I realized before doing so that it would be an extremely pathetic move.
Luckily, I know that I have friends who know me far better than this stranger and who still love me.
Thanks for the compliment on my flirting abilities! I am of course aware that you are exaggerating grossly but I am still grateful for it ;)
thank you for a lovely critique of my set. It still was OK :P
ReplyDeletea few corrections for you: Nicky is in the pic with Kiri, her wife. And I believe LeBelier is from Canada.
Thank you so much, dear Butch, I have corrected the mistakes! ;)
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