A week ago we all learned that the man behind the SecondLife avatar DanR Raymaker, in first life known as Scott Spencer, had passed away after struggling with a painful disease for a long time.
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DanR Raymaker-Mirabella
(a.k.a. Scott Spencer)
★ March 19, 2007 † June 30, 2017 |
I knew him as Dano and first met him at Boots Gay Beach in 2007 (when he looked as his profile picture above).
Dano was one of the most charming, kindest and caring men I have ever met, with a weird sense of humor and a contagious joy of life. Being around Dano, meant you had fun, whatever mood you were in when you got there.
Even his last post on Facebook bears witness of his amazing sense of humor despite the pain and adversities he was struggling with in first life.
Dano was also one of a handful of non-Swedish avatars who dared take part in my blog-series
"Naked Avatars in SL" in 2010. You can see his beautiful contribution in
this post from May 21, 2010.
Yesterday I was invited to, and took part in, the memorial service for him and the celebration of his life. We were about 20-22 assembled, under the guidance of Evan Greymyst and Ezzie Mirabella. I am sure we would have been many more if people didn't have first life responsibilities to contend with during a weekday, but I am happy I could be there.
As I understand it, Dano had in length discussed with Evan Greymyst how he wished his memorial to be conducted. It was a memorable service.
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Evan Greymyst conducting the memorial |
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Dano's husband Nibz and their two sons |
Rest in peace, Dano, you will be sorely missed!