Goodbye Southern Charm!

Cleaned up and cleared out, moving day is here.

I'm saying goodbye to my wonderful Southern Charm, which has been my home for the last seven years, December 2007 - April 1, 2015.

We're Outta Here!

Yesterday my hubby Tomais and I had a long and serious discussion after which we decided that enough is enough is enough...

I myself have been in SecondLife for over eight years while Tomais has been here for close to six (not sex, which is the same number in Swedish) and a half years. We both feel that there can be more to life than the constant drama and bickering we encounter in this beautiful world.

Today, Wednesday April 1, 2015, will be our very last day in SecondLife. We are pulling up stakes and moving to World of Warcraft (WoW), where we plan to form a band of lovers in the tradition of The Sacred Band of Thebes consisting exclusively of male lovers and kick some ass in that game.

As we leave SecondLife together this blog that is dedicated to my existence in SecondLife will also close. I am not sure yet whether or not I will start anew once we have established ourselves in WoW.

Farewell friends, we will miss you all! If you ever join WoW, please look us up there. Kisses and hugs to those who loved us, the rest can burn in their own self-made hells.

DJ Butch's Final Set - For Now...

Yesterday my sweet friend Butch Diavolo informed all of us that he, for personal reasons, had decided to go on an indefinite hiatus from SecondLife.

Butch's s final set before the break was at Q Lounge yesterday and many of his fans and friends came there to thank him and to say "au revoir", all of us adamantly refusing to say goodbye to a beloved friend and DJ.

Butch characteristically without shoes

Ziggy Starsmith

I have always found it extremely difficult to say farewell to someone who has meant much to me, someone who is close and that I care deeply about. Especially in SecondLife, where "taking a break" often enough seems to lead to quitting the virtual world altogether.

Of course I do not question Butch's decision. He is the only one fit to make it and I am sure that he has thought it through before coming to this conclusion, but I will miss him. Butch has always been extremely helpful, kind, caring, loving towards me, although I have gotten my fair share of his ever flowing sarcastic humor.

For now I am content with the reassurance that Butch is doing what he believes he must do and his promise to me that he will in fact attend The Elopement Party that I and Tomais are throwing on March 8th.

Ik vind je zeer veel en zal je missen, mijn vriend! Kom terug naar ons straks weer, wanneer je voelt dat je de energie. (Google Translated, so if it says I want your hot body pressed to mine, it is accurate!)