Tuesday, March 29, 2011

WTG Apmel

It´s a great joy to see that my friend and co-blogger Apmel Goosson´s blog "Min avatar heter Apmel" today hit the 600 000 visitors mark!

As you hopefully still remember that blog received the prestigious lifetime achievement award from The Bock McMillan Art Foundation (a part of the BMcM Corporation) the past weekend.

Way to go, Apmel, you are an example to us all!

Monday, March 28, 2011

The Weekend in Pictures

Well it started of badly on Saturday with me all dolled up and ready to go to a wedding of a friend and his partner. When I looked closely at the invitation - to get a clue where to teleport - I suddenly discovered that the wedding was on Friday, the day before.

So instead of going to that event I sent my excuses to my friend together with the wedding gift and my hopes that they had had a great time without me.

As I started complaining in the Swedish chat about my confusion I was told there was a spontaneous party starting at The Grenouille Inn, run by a friend of mine Iendi Laville.

Here you see me exposing myself to an angel on the counter of Grenouille Inn. (The angel is Iendi Laville.) This time there was a bet on about how fast I would get undressed, so I stretched it out a bit to tease the onlookers and it took me a full five (5) minutes.


On Sunday I as usual went to Circe´s Sunset Jazz Club for The Coffee and Pajamas Jazz Show with Elfay Pinkdot and the best chatters in local anywhere in SecondLife.

This is a picture of the sublime Miss Pinkdot.

We were celebrating the 29th anniversary of Circe Broom´s 21st birthday in real life, and looking at Miss Broom one wouldn't have guessed she was a day older than 21.
Circe Broom, photo by Joetonight Starship
At the Sunset I met Joe´s fairy (yeah, yeah he is an elf but I prefer to say fairy) husband Dalimar for the first time. They looked really hot on the dancefloor.



Look at those moves woohoo!

















The weekend ended with my usual run to the other friendliest club in SecondLife, yeah there are two tied for that position, Vampi´s OrmDricka. There I met DJ Lucien Maven again, I really must say that man has impeccable taste! Here you see some snapshots of us together.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

SecondLife Culture Blog Honored - Updated

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In a communique issued this morning by The Bock McMillan Art Foundation (a part of the BMcM Corporation) it has been announced that the foundation has decided to honor the blog "Min avatar heter Apmel" ("My avatars name is Apmel") with "a lifetime achievement award for it´s dedicated work to spread information and knowledge about art, culture and philosophy in SecondLife to the culturally challenged residents of both the virtual and real worlds." 

The chairman of the foundation, The Much Honored Bock McMillan, Laird of Southern Charm, in an exclusive interview said: "It is true that Mr Lennart Nilsson, the primatar behind the hosts of Apmels swarming all over the virtual worlds of SecondLife, InWorldz etc. etc., is a dear friend to me and my sister Millimina, but that has nothing to do with this decision. The foundation simply wishes to recognize the blog for it´s worthwhile and dedicated work. He may sometimes be an enfant terrible but he always stays true to his character and his elected mission." 

UPDATED with the new blog header! Did I tell you Apmel is sweet?

Cleanliness is Next to Godliness, but... Updated

Ars was a good father and he taught our son well.

One of the things that really irritated my Ars the most was disorganization and untidiness and that is one of my main hang-ups too. But sometimes it is taken much too far...

The day after Andrey´s and my rezday party I discovered that "someone" - and mind you I am not mentioning names here - had been back at the party scene to clean up. Which was very good of them, but imagine my disappointment when "someone" - and I am still not mentioning any names - had carried their fastidiousness too far and also removed a small addition to the party scene that I really loved.

So I am sort of sending out a message here that should be interpreted something like this; "Drop your c**k and grab your socks and mosey your sweet li´l ass in-world to get that extra sign back up straight away or I´ll have to have a serious talk with you, dude!"

I hope my message was clear enough.

UPDATE
Thanks so much "someone"! Love you! xoxoxo

Friday, March 25, 2011

How Can We Cure You Today?

There is nothing that riles me or ruffles my feathers more than intolerance or narrow-mindedness. My buddy sirhc DeSantis knows this very well, which is probably why he yesterday directed my attention to an article on the BBC News website "Sexual preference chemical found in mice".

According to the article Chinese scientists have found that male mice bred without serotonin lose their preference for females.
"The research team first bred male mice whose brains were not receptive to serotonin. A series of experiments demonstrated that these mice had lost the preference for females shown by unmodified males. When presented with a choice of partners, they showed no overall preference for either males or females. When just a male was introduced into the cage, the modified males were far more likely to mount the male and emit a "mating call" normally given off when encountering females than unmodified males were."
I am totally sickened by the waste of human and financial resources, time, energy and effort that is directed at trying to discover what "makes" mice, and - by extension - humans, gay! The fact that this is done shows a lack of acceptance of the fact that being gay is a normal variation of the human condition. In my mind this can be only be interpreted that in the mindset of the researchers being gay is not accepted as a  normal condition. They therefore need to research what causes that abnormality in hopes to find a cure.

"Normal" usually refers to a lack of significant deviation from the average. The phrase "not normal" is often applied in a negative sense (asserting that someone or some situation is improper, sick, etc.) Abnormality varies greatly in how pleasant or unpleasant this is for other people.

Let me make a random list of the nine first aberrations among the 7 billion humans on the planet Earth that need the scientific communities attention.

1. Hair color - The norm is black or white/gray (with age). We need to find a cure for the genetic mutation causing blonds and redheads to be born.(Hair dyes are not a cure, just a cover up.)

2. Eye color - The norm is black or brown. We have to find a cure for the what causes some people to be born with blue or green eyes. (Colored lenses are not a cure, just a cover up.)

3. Skin color - The norm is black, brown or olive. Let´s us find a cure for the paler skins. (Tanning is not a cure, just a cover up.)

4. Left-handedness - The norm is right-handedness. How can we accept the poor buggers being left in that state without trying to find a cure for it?

5. Intelligence - The norm is an IQ somewhere between 90-120. We must find a way to help those who are less and more intelligent. 

6. Penis size - The norm is between 13-18 centimeters (5,1 - 7,1 inches). It is totally unacceptable that some poor men have shorter or longer, we really must find a cure for this condition.

7. Bosom size - Ugh the norm here is not in my knowledge-base but I am sure there is one. We really have to find a cure for the poor flat-chested or overly developed women. (Plastic surgery and braziers with stuffing are not cures, just cover ups.

8. Sexuality - The norm is heterosexuality and perhaps some bi-curiousness should be accepted, but bisexuality, homosexuality, trans-sexuality and trans-gendered really need the attention of the researchers.

9. BMI (body mass index) - The norm is 18,5-25. We need to find a cure immediately for the fat slobs and the skeletons running around. (Starvation and physiological or psychological reasons for over- or under-eating are of course unhealthy.) We must help the poor buggers and find a cure.

In a world with real problems or diseases needing explanation and/or cures I suggest the scientific community focus of finding cures, explanations and remedies for cancer, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease, heart disease etc. etc. The list is endless.

I´m gay and happy being a gay man. I do not need a cure or any explanation to why or how I became gay anymore than I need to know why my hair is blond, my eyes are green and why my penis size is ... hmm TMI ...

I really don´t believe it is a worthwhile endeavor for anyone to find explanations or cures for any of the conditions I listed. We need to accept the variations, they make the world and our fellow humans a beautiful!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Elizabeth Taylor In Memoriam

Taylor and Newman in "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" (MGM 1958)
Dame Elizabeth Taylor, DBE (February 27, 1932 – March 23, 2011) was an English-born American actress. Beginning as a child star, as an adult she came to be known for her acting talent and beauty, and had a much publicized private life. Taylor was considered one of the great actresses of Hollywood's Golden Age. (Wikipedia)

What I will remember Elizabeth Taylor for most as an actress are her performances in
"Giant" opposite James Dean and Rock Hudson (1956),
"Cat on a Hot Tin Roof " opposite Paul Newman (1958) and
"Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf? opposite Richard Burton (1966).

As a heroine in real life I will always remember Elizabeth Taylor for her strong moral backbone, her loyalty and support to her friends Rock Hudson and Michael Jackson and her support of the gay community in general during times when it was not politically correct or even convenient.

The world will always need strong and outspoken women, Elizabeth Taylor was one of them. She made a difference and she will be sorely missed.

This is amFARS´s (The American Foundation for AIDS Research) tribute to Elizabeth Taylor, who was one of the founders..

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Dance in Light


Dance in Light is a 45 minutes show with original music, dance, lights and particles.

It is brought to you by an international team:
junivers Stockholm: Composer, Music performer Stage and Light design (Sweden)
Medora Chevalier: Choreography, Costumes, Dance Performer (UK)
Sunshine Vayandar: Dance Performer (South Africa)
TheDove Rhode: Dance Performer (USA)
Southern Riptide: Dance Performer (USA)
Efrantirise Morane: Light Show operator (Italy)

Dance in Light's original numbers:
Dance of Life
Are You an Angel?
Reggae
Carp Rock
Eden

For more information contact junivers Stockholm, Medora Chevalier or Sunshine Vayander

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The dance company will be giving an open rehearsal on Saturday March 26th, 2011, 12:00 PM (noon) SLT
 
Take me to the show!