Thursday, January 3, 2013

Support Ticket #01587329

Illustration from Farend´s website
I finally lost patience with the problems I have been having for more than two months (see my previous post Technical Malfunctions) and submitted a support ticket to my darling tech-geeks at Linden Lab, even if many have told that they themselves - or someone they know - have had similar issues that suddenly stopped after awhile.

I got the following confirmation via email from Linden Lab..
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A new case has been created
Case: 01587329
Avatar: Bock McMillan
Type: Other Inworld Issues
Status: New

To comment on this case, either Reply to this email, or visit: https://secondlife.com/my/support/?caseID=01587329

(To view the Case online, you will need to log into Secondlife.com with this Avatar: Bock McMillan)
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I will keep you updated on the progress of the case.

Forty-three

In first life I was born on January 3, 1970, at 12.35 PM CET in Lund, Sweden. Which means that I am 43 y.o. today.

This is my very 43rd birthday so I don´t really know what to expect. However, 43 seems like such an extremely agreeable and nice number that I am thinking I may enjoy it.

I never really had an interest in age, neither my own or other peoples. Either we get along splendidly or we don´t, but age has nothing to do with it. Besides some people are born as old bitches (whatever gender they may be) while others are eternally young. I have always felt that the only alternative to growing older is worse.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Same Love


(via +Joe Jervis at J.M.G.)

On Dr. Butch´s Couch

From the American Psychoanalytic Association´s website concerning The Use of the Couch in psychoanalysis:
"Following Freud’s practice, many psychoanalysts recommend the use of the couch for their patients in psychoanalysis. To some onlookers, the practice appears arcane or puzzling. Why the use of the couch?
Most psychoanalysts find that the couch is helpful because it takes analytic patients’ focus off the external. Instead, patients turn their attention inward, to fantasies, daydreams, feelings. Dr. John Munder Ross (1999) notes that, in lying down, peoples’ perspective changes. They focus less on objects in the environment and more on images that arise from their own minds. Not bound by an awareness of the analyst’s facial expressions and gestures, the analytic patient is more readily able to imagine what the analyst is thinking or feeling, too, which enriches the experience of analysis.
In addition, many analysts find that they, themselves, work more productively when their patients use the couch. Not constrained by social conventions— maintaining eye contact, for instance— analysts can relax more fully. Therefore, they can focus better on what the patient is saying and feeling and resonate more fully with the patient’s spoken and unspoken communications. The couch, in essence, helps analysts and their patients immerse themselves in the extraordinarily rich world of the mind."

Top Ten Things I Hate About Myself


10. My overuse of exclamation marks!
9. My habit of singing psalms when I shower 
8. My obsession for tidiness 
7. My need for principles 
6. My Stalinist view on history 
5. My compulsion of over-analyzing E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G
4. My missionary tendencies
3. My soapbox-mentality 
2. My big mouth and small ears
and most of all
1. My mushiness and sentimentality

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

At Mirromere

The beautiful Calas Galadhon Park sims are closed for a month due to remodeling, but as a member of the land-group I still have access. It was extremely lucky for me because I needed to be at Mirromere today. Although I have a part of the memorial for Ars erected on the home sim, the memorial spot at Mirromere is still the place I go to when I feel the need to be closer to him. Ty Tenk and Truck Meredith have promised to keep me informed of any major changes that may be necessary.

After spending some time there I was calm again and realized that, no matter what, I would always trust in what my Ars and I had and what he had told me.

My Men Make Me Proud

Well, I must say that 2013 has already gotten off to the most amazing start.
"Bobby kisses Cortez during a play-fight at the Korengal Outpost, Afghanistan" (2008)
Photo by Tim Hetherington
First of all I was reached by the news, in an offline message when I got up in the middle of the night, that Guyke and Dej had made up again. When I logged in-world immediately after reading this Dej confirmed the news. I love both of the guys so much and it makes me so happy and proud that they settled this dispute.

I like my friends to be passionate but reasonable and rational. They both proved that they measure up to that! Quarrels can and will occur among such hotheaded people with strong feelings. I must simply learn to trust in their wisdom and not worry too much about it. Usually they will work things out nicely without my meddling, once they get a chance to think about it when they are calmer.

The other thing that has happened already this year is that Ziggy has decided to make an honest avatar of Guyke, after first robbing him of his precious virginity (which had been surgically restored in a costly procedure at some obscure Mexican sim). During the night Ziggy proposed to Guyke, who of course knowing I would never forgive him if he did anything else, accepted the proposal! Woot! Woot!

2013 is going to be an exceptionally wonderful year, take my word for it and remember you read it here first!