I have just been rereading my email correspondence with my
Ars.
I saved them all. 34 emails in total during the period from February 26th, 2008, to September 19th, 2009.
Not that many considering the almost two and a half years we were together, but then again we were mostly in-world.
25 of the emails were reminders that one of us would be away a certain day (mostly Ars to me because he knew what a scatterbrain I am), one of us having login-failures and that we would keep trying or just a fast "love you" in passing when one of us wasn't in-world for some reason or other.
Three were rather funny to read because it was Ars being the good father and trying to calm me down after
"his son" (as I called
Guyke in that conversation) and I had had a huge fight where
"the self-centered little brat" (my words) had removed me from his friends list in the middle of it and I refused to accept him back on - in spite of repeated requests from him - for a week or so. I told Ars I wanted
"the little shit" to suffer so he learned never, ever, to do it again, but that I certainly would eventually accept his friendship offer when I was good and ready.
Two were from Ars explaining the deal he had struck with our former landlady for the transfer of ownership of
Southern Charm to us.
The last four were from a quarrel we had once early in our relationship about some really stupid and unimportant thing, where I mostly complained
extensively about how infuriated I was that Ars just logged off in the middle of the argument. (Men huh?) He told me that I had really pissed him off because I stopped listening. (Well, true enough I do that.) The amazing thing is we still ended each e-mail with
"Love you, babe!"
I am not sure I can recommend doing what I did, at least when you are not in a happy mood from the start.