Love in SL - Results of the Poll Are In

The results on Eddi Haskell's poll on the interesting question: Have you ever fallen in love with someone you have met in Second Life? (Please answer only if you are a current or former resident.) are finally in!

Go here Eddi Haskell's Second Life: Poll Results to check out the surprising results!

Personal Message to Iendi

Dearest ex-missus Iendi,
I have been trying all evening to listen to the interview you did with me yesterday, but I cannot get it to work.

First i tried clicking the link in your archives, but nothing happened except I got an "Oops! Google Chrome could not connect to transistorn.dyndns.info:8000".

Then I tried copying the link http://transistorn.dyndns.info:8000/content/nyfikenbock.pls and pasting it into my Winamp-player, but that did not work either.

At your suggestion I downloaded the VLC media player and tried the same link, that's when I got the lower message in the picture above.

Lastly I tried changing the file-type from .pls to .mp3 (http://transistorn.dyndns.info:8000/content/nyfikenbock.mp3) as you suggested in the offline message I just received, but that did not work either, as you can see from the upper message in the picture above.

I a giving up for the night, but I am actually starting to believe that I must have said something so terrible that destiny is trying to protect me from listening to it.

Yours truly,
Bock

P.S. Did Holy tell you that I had a serious talk with him yesterday?

My Radio Interview

Recently my ex-missus (from the April Fools Day prank) Iendi Laville asked me if I would consider being interviewed on her weekly radio show on her radio channel Iendi's Transistor in SecondLife.

After thinking about it for a moment I happily accepted.  We agreed to do it live and without any limitations as to which questions could be asked by Iendi or the audience. As I told Iendi, "I am a big boy, if I do not like or wish to answer a particular question I will say so when it is asked."

My sister Millimina Salamander and my buddy Apmel Ibetsson came to give me support

The interview started at 12 PM SLT today and lasted for approximately an hour, but the time passed extremely fast. I am not quite sure how it went really, but Iendi and I had a good time talking although I can hardly remember what we talked about. I will have to listen to it when Iendi posts it on the radio's blog, Iendis Transistor..The interview was in Swedish so I am afraid most of you will not understand much of it.

After the interview I danced with Blanche Argus
with Holy Archer looking on in the background

My Lovely Ars

Ars Northmead (October 25, 2006 - March 12, 2010)

in first life also known as

J.D. "Doug" Wilson (April 21, 1953 - March 12, 2010)

in loving memory

For Christmas 2009 I gave my closest family members photo sessions with the renowned photographer Kent Hutchinson of KH Photography. 

Ars was the first to make an appointment with Kent and have his pictures taken. About a week later Kent invited us back to the studio to look at the proofs and to select which four pictures we wanted out of the 20 that were on display there. 

Ars, Millimina and I went to the studio together, I had butterflies in my stomach and was nervous that Ars would be disappointed with the results. I needn't have worried. Kent had done a splendid job in capturing the essence of my lovely Ars. After taking only one look at them all, I told Kent that we wanted all of them. Every single one.

Although Ars and I had been together for two years at the time and I loved him deeply, seeing the pictures - especially the one I am using in this post - made me fall in love with him all over again.

Coming Together

Yesterday I had invited a small and carefully selected group of family and friends to join me at Southern Charm to commemorate the third anniversary of Ars' passing. The real day is tomorrow, March 12, but as you all know it is usually easier for people to make time during the weekends.

Dej, Millimina, I, Shayne & Sarco

Those invited were
Guyke Lundquist, Ars' son,
Dej Mycron, Ars' brother,
Andrey Messmer (nowadays known as Drey Porchers), Ars' brother,
Jeb Nicholls, Ars' brother,
Shayne Turbo, Ars' brother in-law and husband of Jeb
Millimina Salamander, Ars' sister in-law and my sister, and last but not least,
Sarco Halderman, Ars' business partner and both our friend.

Sarco, Guyke & I

I was so fortunate that all except two could attend despite it being held on the day that the United States started Daylight Saving Time and the fact that Sarco had to get up at six o'clock on a Monday morning. Jeb unfortunately had a prior engagement and Drey could sadly not be reached.

The six of us who could make it had a nice time together,  exchanging memories of Ars and catching up with what had been going on in the others first and second lives.

When You Really Loved Someone

(tipped by Bock in SecondLife reader +Joe Jervis @ J.M.G.) 

This one goes right to my heart, and I am not usually a big fan of Ms. Agnetha Fältskog. And no, it was only a bit of wishful thinking on my part, Joe didn't exactly tip me, he just posted it on his blog!

I'm An Old Fart

Although I still feel like I am in the prime of my manhood and that I am at an age that suits me perfectly I must finally face the facts and accept and embrace that

I am now officially an old fart!

I rezzed into SecondLife on March 11, 2007, after reading in a newspaper article that the Kingdom of Sweden had established an Embassy in a virtual world that I had never heard of. As a taxpayer I was curious about this news and came to check it out myself. I have never regretted that day and I am sure I never will!

There have been good times, bad times, difficult times, lazy times, easy times, boring times and times like it felt like a living hell and when I wondered why I kept on going back. The truth is that SecondLife is just what the name tells you. It is a second life with its own rules and limitations, but if you give it a chance and let yourself experience it with an open mind and an open heart and learn from it and give back to it you are richly rewarded. 

For me it has always been about people, they enrich my life and they warm my heart when we share experiences and thoughts and feelings. True, all people are not good news or healthy to have in your environment, but - just as in first life - they are few and far between and forgettable.

So happy rezday to me and count on me being here the following six years also!