Saturday, October 1, 2011

Saturday Fun

Among all the other events going on in SecondLife on a Saturday evening I would especially like to recommend the following two.

My friend Midnattsdotter "Mid" Fride and her crew are celebrating the 4th anniversary of Fride Club & Lounge with an impressive line up of great SecondLife entertainers for four hours, featuring among others my buddy Strum Diesel. This event starts at 12 PM SLT with a new artist/group every hour. Theme for the party is "Super Mario characters".

This is the event I will try to squeeze in to. The line starts behind me, don´t use your elbows but any other body part is OK, with the exception of boobs!

SLurl to the party

The second event I would like to recommend is arranged by the great LGBT news blog Gay World News and starts at 8 PM SLT (which is 5 AM for me so I will most likely miss it).

This party takes place at the BLU club at Boystown and the theme is "Super Villains". The event will be covered by GWN in-world.

SLurl to the BLU Club

Breast Cancer Awareness 2011

October is the International Breast Cancer Awareness month.

Breast Cancer is a disease which affects all of us more or less frequently by striking down someone in our families or among our friends, co-workers, neighbors and acquaintances. Although the disease can hit both sexes it is much more common among women.

Friday morning when I came to work all the staff was called to a gathering in the office lunchroom where we were informed that Helena, one of our co-workers and a friend of mine, had passed away late Thursday evening at the early age of 56.

The news did not come as a total surprise as Helena had been on sick leave for almost a year.

Helena started working with us two years ago and soon after discovered she had a lump in one of her breasts. She had had the disease about 15 years earlier so she immediately recognized what it was and sought treatment at once. This time the treatment was not at all successful and the cancer spread fast to her liver, lungs and skeleton.

Although Helena only worked with us for a short time she was well liked by all of us for her energetic, outgoing  and positive personality. She was also a friend of mine and we would usually celebrate New Years Eve together with other friends.

We will all miss her strong personality and her kind spirit. I will miss a friend who was dear to me.
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Early detection is crucial for the success of treatment in Breast Cancer, as in many other diseases. Please make it a habit to regularly exam your breasts.

If you are a woman living in Sweden you should also make it a priority to go to the mammography check-ups offered by the public healthcare system at regular intervals.

The Five Steps of Breast Self Exam

Step 1: Begin by looking at your breasts in the mirror with your shoulders straight and your arms on your hips.

Here's what you should look for:
· Breasts that are their usual size, shape, and color
· Breasts that are evenly shaped without visible distortion or swelling

If you see any of the following changes, bring them to your doctor's attention:
· Dimpling, puckering, or bulging of the skin
· A nipple that has changed position or an inverted nipple (pushed inward instead of sticking out) Redness, soreness, rash, or swelling

Step 2: Now, raise your arms and look for the same changes.

Step 3: While you're at the mirror, look for any signs of fluid coming out of one or both nipples (this could be a watery, milky, or yellow fluid or blood).

Step 4: Next, feel your breasts while lying down, using your right hand to feel your left breast and then your left hand to feel your right breast. Use a firm, smooth touch with the first few finger pads of your hand, keeping the fingers flat and together. Use a circular motion, about the size of a quarter.

Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side — from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage. Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the nipple, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn. This up-and-down approach seems to work best for most women. Be sure to feel all the tissue from the front to the back of your breasts: for the skin and tissue just beneath, use light pressure; use medium pressure for tissue in the middle of your breasts; use firm pressure for the deep tissue in the back. When you've reached the deep tissue, you should be able to feel down to your ribcage.

Step 5: Finally, feel your breasts while you are standing or sitting. Many women find that the easiest way to feel their breasts is when their skin is wet and slippery, so they like to do this step in the shower. Cover your entire breast, using the same hand movements described in Step 4.

New All Time High

September 2011 was a new record breaking month for "Bock In SecondLife" with a total of 12 749 pageviews.

The previous records were set in July 2011 (12 477 pageviews) and January 2011 (10 041 pageviews).

Audience - Country count
during 09/2011
The trend towards a more International audience has been strengthened this month, although my fellow Swedes continue to be faithful readers.

Sweden is still in the lead as my all time largest reader country with close to 51 000 pageviews, while the U.S. come in at just over 22 000.

Audience - Language share
October 1st, 2011.
The three largest language groups among my readers now are English (61 %), Swedish (20 %) and Norwegian, including. Bokmål, (4 %).

Since the start on August 25th, 2009, this blog has had 995 posts that have received 2 110 comments.

Friday, September 30, 2011

Line Up

This is just a cool advertisement I saw at copyranter a while ago.

I find it very amusing, and cannot help thinking about the trials the poor photographer had to go through to get this great shot. (I don´t think it is done in Photoshop, but others may know better.)
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On another note I owe you all an update on how my mother is doing. She remains in the hospital and will most likely stay their at least another week.

Mother is still on antibiotics and oxygen, but last night she was also given two bags of blood because they found that her hemoglobin count was very low (85, normal is around 120). Apparently mother has been bleeding somewhere internally but they do not seem to know from where yet. Due to dehydration she will also be getting a drip overnight.

However mothers erythrocyte sedimentation rate (ESR) which was at 285 when she was admitted to hospital is now down to 55 (normal value for women in mothers age group is <20), which means the antibiotics are helping.

The doctors are still hopeful and so are my family. I am getting a bit despondent as the additional troubles set in as I recognize the situation, but I am also trying to keep my hopes up, mainly for my parents sake.

I am too tired for SecondLife tonight so I am staying away.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Doc Spad: Be A Warrior

My friend Doc Spad, USMC, today calls upon us all to stand up against bullying on his blog Doc Spad...a few thoughts. Read the post "Be A Warrior"

We must never ever let the bullies succeed in their efforts, fight them at every instance. Don´t let them think they are getting away with what they are doing unnoticed, call them out for what they are.

Apart from being a friend of mine, Doc is also the Chairman of the board for Second Pride 2011.

When Strangers Click 2


On September 23rd I was very lucky! Although it had been widely publicized on some of the Swedish SecondLife blogs that the HBO documentary film "When Strangers Click" was going to be shown on the Swedish television channel SVT I had completely forgotten about it.

However, I must have remembered subconsciously or just had a bit of dumb luck because contrary to my usual habits the first thing I did when I came home from work was turn on the television set. And there it was, the film had just started running so I settled down in front of my set and watched it.

The film depicts five couples meeting and falling in love on the Internet, among them the SecondLife singer/songwriter Bara Jonson and his sweet wife Nickel Borrelly, who both are dear friends of mine.

Bock as Bara´s best man
Photography by Ika Cioc
It is in this film that The Much Honored Bock McMillan, laird of Southern Charm and prince of Cascade Falls, makes his international television debut in the cameo role as Bara´s best man in the pictures from the sweet couples SecondLife marriage.

I liked the documentary, but most of all I loved watching my friends and Bara´s mother Malla all being charming, intelligent, honest and so sweet. I actually fell completely in platonic love with both the primatars of Nickel and Malla.

Nickel very forthrightly tells us that we owe gratitude to Vodka for the existence of their beautiful son  Kris, who was born nine months after Bara and Nickels first life meeting.
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An interesting fact that was presented in the program is the responses that women and men gave to the question "What are you most afraid of concerning Internet dating?"
Women: That they would meet a serial killer.
Men: That they would meet someone who is fat.

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Cool People


(via copyranter)

I totally love this ad for Carlsberg. Brave and open minded people who do not judge books by their covers truly deserve Carlsberg´s, well cooled.