Saturday, March 26, 2011

Cleanliness is Next to Godliness, but... Updated

Ars was a good father and he taught our son well.

One of the things that really irritated my Ars the most was disorganization and untidiness and that is one of my main hang-ups too. But sometimes it is taken much too far...

The day after Andrey´s and my rezday party I discovered that "someone" - and mind you I am not mentioning names here - had been back at the party scene to clean up. Which was very good of them, but imagine my disappointment when "someone" - and I am still not mentioning any names - had carried their fastidiousness too far and also removed a small addition to the party scene that I really loved.

So I am sort of sending out a message here that should be interpreted something like this; "Drop your c**k and grab your socks and mosey your sweet li´l ass in-world to get that extra sign back up straight away or I´ll have to have a serious talk with you, dude!"

I hope my message was clear enough.

UPDATE
Thanks so much "someone"! Love you! xoxoxo

Friday, March 25, 2011

How Can We Cure You Today?

There is nothing that riles me or ruffles my feathers more than intolerance or narrow-mindedness. My buddy sirhc DeSantis knows this very well, which is probably why he yesterday directed my attention to an article on the BBC News website "Sexual preference chemical found in mice".

According to the article Chinese scientists have found that male mice bred without serotonin lose their preference for females.
"The research team first bred male mice whose brains were not receptive to serotonin. A series of experiments demonstrated that these mice had lost the preference for females shown by unmodified males. When presented with a choice of partners, they showed no overall preference for either males or females. When just a male was introduced into the cage, the modified males were far more likely to mount the male and emit a "mating call" normally given off when encountering females than unmodified males were."
I am totally sickened by the waste of human and financial resources, time, energy and effort that is directed at trying to discover what "makes" mice, and - by extension - humans, gay! The fact that this is done shows a lack of acceptance of the fact that being gay is a normal variation of the human condition. In my mind this can be only be interpreted that in the mindset of the researchers being gay is not accepted as a  normal condition. They therefore need to research what causes that abnormality in hopes to find a cure.

"Normal" usually refers to a lack of significant deviation from the average. The phrase "not normal" is often applied in a negative sense (asserting that someone or some situation is improper, sick, etc.) Abnormality varies greatly in how pleasant or unpleasant this is for other people.

Let me make a random list of the nine first aberrations among the 7 billion humans on the planet Earth that need the scientific communities attention.

1. Hair color - The norm is black or white/gray (with age). We need to find a cure for the genetic mutation causing blonds and redheads to be born.(Hair dyes are not a cure, just a cover up.)

2. Eye color - The norm is black or brown. We have to find a cure for the what causes some people to be born with blue or green eyes. (Colored lenses are not a cure, just a cover up.)

3. Skin color - The norm is black, brown or olive. Let´s us find a cure for the paler skins. (Tanning is not a cure, just a cover up.)

4. Left-handedness - The norm is right-handedness. How can we accept the poor buggers being left in that state without trying to find a cure for it?

5. Intelligence - The norm is an IQ somewhere between 90-120. We must find a way to help those who are less and more intelligent. 

6. Penis size - The norm is between 13-18 centimeters (5,1 - 7,1 inches). It is totally unacceptable that some poor men have shorter or longer, we really must find a cure for this condition.

7. Bosom size - Ugh the norm here is not in my knowledge-base but I am sure there is one. We really have to find a cure for the poor flat-chested or overly developed women. (Plastic surgery and braziers with stuffing are not cures, just cover ups.

8. Sexuality - The norm is heterosexuality and perhaps some bi-curiousness should be accepted, but bisexuality, homosexuality, trans-sexuality and trans-gendered really need the attention of the researchers.

9. BMI (body mass index) - The norm is 18,5-25. We need to find a cure immediately for the fat slobs and the skeletons running around. (Starvation and physiological or psychological reasons for over- or under-eating are of course unhealthy.) We must help the poor buggers and find a cure.

In a world with real problems or diseases needing explanation and/or cures I suggest the scientific community focus of finding cures, explanations and remedies for cancer, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease, heart disease etc. etc. The list is endless.

I´m gay and happy being a gay man. I do not need a cure or any explanation to why or how I became gay anymore than I need to know why my hair is blond, my eyes are green and why my penis size is ... hmm TMI ...

I really don´t believe it is a worthwhile endeavor for anyone to find explanations or cures for any of the conditions I listed. We need to accept the variations, they make the world and our fellow humans a beautiful!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Elizabeth Taylor In Memoriam

Taylor and Newman in "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" (MGM 1958)
Dame Elizabeth Taylor, DBE (February 27, 1932 – March 23, 2011) was an English-born American actress. Beginning as a child star, as an adult she came to be known for her acting talent and beauty, and had a much publicized private life. Taylor was considered one of the great actresses of Hollywood's Golden Age. (Wikipedia)

What I will remember Elizabeth Taylor for most as an actress are her performances in
"Giant" opposite James Dean and Rock Hudson (1956),
"Cat on a Hot Tin Roof " opposite Paul Newman (1958) and
"Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf? opposite Richard Burton (1966).

As a heroine in real life I will always remember Elizabeth Taylor for her strong moral backbone, her loyalty and support to her friends Rock Hudson and Michael Jackson and her support of the gay community in general during times when it was not politically correct or even convenient.

The world will always need strong and outspoken women, Elizabeth Taylor was one of them. She made a difference and she will be sorely missed.

This is amFARS´s (The American Foundation for AIDS Research) tribute to Elizabeth Taylor, who was one of the founders..

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Dance in Light


Dance in Light is a 45 minutes show with original music, dance, lights and particles.

It is brought to you by an international team:
junivers Stockholm: Composer, Music performer Stage and Light design (Sweden)
Medora Chevalier: Choreography, Costumes, Dance Performer (UK)
Sunshine Vayandar: Dance Performer (South Africa)
TheDove Rhode: Dance Performer (USA)
Southern Riptide: Dance Performer (USA)
Efrantirise Morane: Light Show operator (Italy)

Dance in Light's original numbers:
Dance of Life
Are You an Angel?
Reggae
Carp Rock
Eden

For more information contact junivers Stockholm, Medora Chevalier or Sunshine Vayander

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The dance company will be giving an open rehearsal on Saturday March 26th, 2011, 12:00 PM (noon) SLT
 
Take me to the show!

Monday, March 21, 2011

Changing Paradigms



This RSA Animate is taken from a speech given at the RSA by Sir Ken Robinson, world-renowned education expert and recipient of the RSA  Benjamin Franklin award.

Thanks to my friend Butch Diavolo for pointing me to this!

... and let me just add for the benefit of my Swedish readers, "Utbildningsminister Jan Björklund, släng dig i väggen. Lyssna, lär och tillämpa!" (Which loosely translated means "Go jump in the lake Swedish Minister of Education Jan Björklund. Listen, learn and implement!")

Fourth Rezday Party Pictures - UPDATED!!!

Sorry for the delay with this post but I have a real life too ya know...

The pictures are mostly the gracious gifts of my dear friends Diana (surname withheld) and Joetonight Starship, one was stolen from my darling sister Millimina Salamanders blog and a few are my own.

All did not get captured on film by either Joe or Diana and they had - alas - both left us before the hunkalicious men from Club Erotes joined us. At a fast glance I can also see we missed taking pictures of Stirred, and many, many more but we were over 35 avatars a good while so...If anyone has more pictures and don´t mind sharing them with me, please send them to me!

Update 11 PM SLT (7 AM CET the next morning): I have now added a few pictures stolen from Apmel Goossons blog, that include Adrina, Sarco, Svessa, Vanadis, Chade, Volker and ush...

Update 10:30 AM (6:30 PM CET); I have added a picture of Apmel´s buttock cleavage on his insistence and for your comparison.


My deepest thanks again to everyone who came and to everyone who could not come due to real life or other reasons, but most of all to my wonderful family who convinced me this was a good idea and arranged it all with the wonderful surprise performances by DJ Andrey (my BIL and the other rezday boy), Strum Diesel, Bara Jonson, legendary DJ Sarco and last but in no way least Apmel Goosson for showing cleavage.
DJ Sarco - stolen from Apmel Goosson
ush in front of the shirtless gay men, Adrina dancing with Bock, Chade with Volker, Frost with Svessa - stolen from Apmel Goosson
Vanadis in her "Bock" t-shirt, Kandi, Frost and Svessa - stolen from Apmel Goosson
Photo stolen from Millimina Salamander
Andrey (my BIL), Frosts back and Millimina (my sister) - Diana
Ciroc and Andrey - Joetonight Starship
Andrey - Joetonight Starship
Joe himself with Apmel and Millimina - Joetonight Starship
Apmel - Joetonight Starship
Blanche - Joetonight Starship
Bock, in the background you see Diana and her hubby Hunter dancing - Diana
Bock study, in the background Valter and May - Joetonight Starship
Bock again - Diana
Bara

Strum
Bara attacked by a crazy stalker
Bock - Joetonight Starship
Ciroc showing his perky ass - Joetonight Starship, and below - for my readers comparison of cute buttocks -
is Apmel showing his cleavage for us also.
Dejerrity - Diana
Dejerrity and Bock partying - Joetonight Starship
Frost and Millimina - Joetonight Starship
The Cuteness and Coolness, Guyke and Janttu - Diana
C & C - Joetonight
Joeh - Joetonight Starship
Kandi - Joetonight Starship
Lunata - Joetonight Starship
Mialinn - Joetonight Starship
Millimina - Diana
Millimina - Joetonight Starship
Minoa - Joetonight Starship
Party people, party! - Diana
Strum - Diana
Wizanna - Diana
Vampi & sirhc, Joe, Apmel and Frost in background - Joetonight Starship

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Oh What A Night

I am totally exhausted today after the wonderful rezday celebration yesterday for my BIL and me - and so happy and fortunate to be surrounded by these caring, loving and wonderful people in my SecondLife!

For now I will only say thanks to all who came and took part in celebrating Andrey and me on our fourth rezday but in particular I would like to thank the following for organizing and participating in making this amazing evening and night possible.

Andrey, my wonderful BIL and a fantastic DJ with one of the biggest hearts I have ever met, for talking me into doing it at all at a time when I wasn't particularly thrilled by the idea of a rezday party, in fact I had just a few days earlier turned down suggestions from Guyke and Millimina.

Millimina, Guyke and Janttu, my always supportive and loving family, who organized the most amazing and hilarious party imaginable in a very short time. (...and then calmly saved the day as the first thing I did when I got there was to derez the party venue.)

Strum and Stirred, two of the most beautiful souls in SecondLife and one of the most beautiful, witty and touching voices on the SecondLife music scene (...and I only mention one voice because I haven´t had the privilege to hear Stirred sing - not yet...). I am so proud to count both of these dudes among my friends.

Bara, my amazing and lovely buddy since for ever, who always hits every spot possible in me with his songs and his warm voice.

Sarco, the iconic and legendary DJ and my friend since the earliest days. Oh yes I do admit there were times I did not love him but that was mainly due to my ignorance, my Ars always loved him and at the end and they had made their peace. I will always rely on Sarco´s excellent memory reminding me of events that I have long since forgotten, that always bring back the love I had for Ars and the love the two of them had for each other through all the turmoil.

There are four more I would like to mention here and they are, Svessa, Frost, Mialinn and Blanche. Thanks to you all for accepting my outstretched hand over the rift that has divided the Swedish/Scandinavian SecondLife community.

In these days when the earth shudders, when nuclear power plants explode, when dictators are toppled and go down slaughtering their own people I have been immersed in my own private affairs. True it may be pathetic but it is also very human I guess. During days like these I have also realized how petty the fracas and in-fighting has been.

Stay tuned for updates with amazing pictures from the party as soon as I have gathered the energy to sort out all my impressions and all the wonderful things that happened. And dealing with a bit of real life in between.

I love you all, all who were at the party and all who sent greetings but couldn't come because they had other obligations to deal with in First Life and in SecondLife.